{"id":148,"date":"2014-06-01T11:30:29","date_gmt":"2014-06-01T15:30:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/michaeleweissmanwrites.com\/?page_id=148"},"modified":"2021-03-17T14:05:57","modified_gmt":"2021-03-17T18:05:57","slug":"an-excerpt-from-the-rye-bread-marriage","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/michaeleweissmanwrites.com\/index.php\/an-excerpt-from-the-rye-bread-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"An Excerpt from The Rye Bread Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<hr \/>\n<figure id=\"attachment_68\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-68\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-68\" src=\"https:\/\/michaeleweissmanwrites.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/sell-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Michaele introduces Manhattan shoppers to the wonders of Latvian rye bread.\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/michaeleweissmanwrites.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/sell-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/michaeleweissmanwrites.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/sell-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-68\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Michaele introduces Manhattan shoppers to the wonders of Latvian rye bread.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I stand crowded into a small space in front of a refrigerated display case on the far wall of Zabar\u2019s bakery section handing out tiny triangles of Baltic-style rye bread. These tidbits have the tough black crust, firm black-brown interior and fermented sour-sweet flavor characteristic of rye breads baked in the countries that hug the Baltic Sea. My husband comes from this long- suffering region. His quixotic little company, Black Rooster Food, markets the kind of rye bread favored in Latvia, his homeland.\u00a0\u00a0 It is because of him and his love of rye bread and because of our marriage that I am standing in Zabar\u2019s, the Upper West Side\u2019s of Manhattan\u2019s iconic grocery, handing out samples of rye bread on a bright Saturday in October.<\/p>\n<p>Not for the feint of heart&#8211; Zabars on a busy Saturday.\u00a0\u00a0 The store swarms with foraging food lovers. A propulsive flow of energy pushes these native New Yorkers through a maze of aisles, past racks and display counters singing siren songs of edible temptation.\u00a0\u00a0 I stand in the back adjacent to a heavy swinging door on one of the store\u2019s two east-west passageways.\u00a0\u00a0 Now and then a tall, sweet-faced Dominican shouting, \u201cComing through. Come through,\u201d grazes my display table with his cart.\u00a0\u00a0 Still, I am strategically placed.\u00a0\u00a0 To get from one side of store to the other, from hand-dipped ricotta to aged Balsamic, from hand-carved Nova Scotia salmon to air cured Spanish ham, customers have to pass directly in front of my little table.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCare to taste a traditional sourdough rye bread,\u201d I ask each and every one of them.\u00a0\u00a0 \u201cIt\u2019s an Old World recipe. Hand-made made with 100 percent whole grain rye flour. \u201c<\/p>\n<p>Fast moving even on Saturday, customers race by me. Some seize pieces of bread on the fly like marathoners grabbing a cup of water from an outstretched hand. Others slow to a stop as they pop a tidbit into their mouths.\u00a0\u00a0 Maybe one in ten picks up a package of bread from the display rack.\u00a0\u00a0 Black Rooster Food, they say. Cute logo, they say. They check out the price. (Handmade foodstuffs are not cheap.) Often they drop the package into their basket. Sometimes they do not.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCare to taste a traditional sourdough rye, \u201cI ask the next and the next.<\/p>\n<p>A pretty woman in her mid-40s with large blue eyes and black hair stops and peers at the 2 kilo (5 pounds) bread on my table. Her eyes caress the black loaf, as big and as bulky as a small turkey.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOur bread fights back when you bite into, \u201cI say with a laugh. \u201cAnd rye is intensely nutritious.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI buy this bread every week,\u201d she says dismissing my sales pitch. \u201cI know about good bread. I used to own a bakery. We baked rye bread.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0 I struggle to place her accent. German?\u00a0\u00a0 As we chat she drops one, two, and then three quarter loaves of our neatly packaged bread into her basket. No, not German. Israeli.\u00a0\u00a0 Her accent is Israeli.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhere was your bakery?\u201d I ask. \u201cIn Tel Aviv?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo it was in Queens,\u201d she says. \u201cQueens, New York. But I learned about rye bread in Israel. My grandmother escaped from Poland and settled in Herzelia, in the north. She owned a beauty shop. I went there after school.\u00a0\u00a0 Next store was a bread bakery. The fragrance of just baked rye bread filled my grandmother\u2019s shop. That\u2019s what I remember. The mouth-watering smell\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis is the healthiest bread in the world,\u201d says a blondish woman with flyaway hair picking up a package of bread and reading the label. She throws the loaf into her basket.<\/p>\n<p>The two women stand at my table extolling the virtues of rye bread. It\u2019s nutritional superiority to all other breads. (Rye flour is far more nutritious than wheat.) It\u2019s three week shelf life. It\u2019s high fiber content. It\u2019s sour earthy taste. So delicious accompanying so many foods, especially those of northern Europe.<\/p>\n<p>Their conversation draws a crowd. I say nothing \u2013why should I, when these customers are doing my job?\u2014but when the subject changes to eating rye bread for breakfast, I join in.\u00a0\u00a0 Our talk becomes an improvisational riff, a jazz song celebrating the first meal of the day. We three like our rye bread:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Thin sliced with peanut butter and black currant jam<\/p>\n<p>Dripping with raw honey and almond butter<\/p>\n<p>Bubbling with melted Jarlsberg and topped with Dijon mustard.<\/p>\n<p>Sopping up the yolk of an organic soft boiled egg\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Slipped under a fried egg, the bright broken yoke saucing a slice of rye bread<\/p>\n<p>Oh, yes, and the pork-eaters among us (namely me) love our rye bread soaking up the fat oozing from thick slices of slab bacon.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>A small group surrounds us waiting to hear more. Food talk, like food writing, provides its own form of pleasure, its own form of sustenance.\u00a0\u00a0 One after another these bystanders drop packages of rye bread into their baskets, and I receive an on-the-job lesson in real time viral marketing.<\/p>\n<p>The bits of bread on my tray are disappearing fast. I have brought a non-serrated chef\u2019s knife with me to cut more.\u00a0\u00a0 The proper tool easily slices through the tough black crust that is formed by the bread\u2019s exposure to the oven\u2019s first blast of high heat\u2014 later the oven temperature is lowered so the interior can bake.\u00a0\u00a0 I carve a dozen slices of bread, subdividing them into many small triangles, each with bit of crust. (To judge the excellence of any bread your teeth need to make contact with the crust and the interior.)<\/p>\n<p>I go back to handing out samples.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCare to taste an authentic old world rye bread?\u201d I ask. \u201cMade with100 percent rye flour. No wheat at all.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI hate rye bread,\u201d a woman in a red sweater says defiantly as she scurries towards the pastry.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYuck,\u201d says a small woman looking for a place to spit.\u00a0\u00a0 She looks as if she might be from Indonesian. Or Sri Lanka. She searches her purse for a tissue. \u201cHere I say,\u201d handing her a small napkin. She starts to apologize. \u201cNo need,\u201d I tell her. \u201cFood is a vocabulary.\u00a0\u00a0 If you speak a different language, the food of an unknown culture can be repelling.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>A young guy carrying a bike helmet picks up a quarter loaf, peers at the label. He tells me that he bakes bread at home. \u201cI\u2019ve tried to make rye bread like this. But no can do. Rye flour is sticky and miserable to work with\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Which is why most rye breads contain some wheat, I respond.\u00a0\u00a0 The wheat makes the dough easier to work. This bread is different. It\u2019s made of 100 percent rye&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo wheat. Does that mean your bread is Gluten free?\u201d asks a slender woman with one of those surgically-altered, characterologically-discontented faces one sees in wealthy urban enclaves.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cRye has less gluten than wheat bread, but it is not gluten free\u2026.<\/p>\n<p>She picks up a loaf, looks carefully at the label and then returns it, with a small shudder, to the display rack. \u201cI never eat bread,\u201d she says, her tone reminding me of a guest at a long ago dinner party who turned her wine glass upside down to indicate that she preferred not to imbibe. (As was the case then, I am riled by the aggressive self satisfaction of the abstemious.)<\/p>\n<p>I sigh, knowing they come in waves, these bread-haters.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis bread has salt,\u201d chimes in a well-dressed guy in his 30\u2019s, his voice accusatory.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll bread has salt,\u201d I answer.\u00a0\u00a0 \u201cFlour. Water. Salt.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis bread has too much salt,\u201d he replies.<\/p>\n<p>I surreptitiously check my watch.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis here is pumpernickel bread,\u201d states an older guy in a blue fleece and running shoes.\u00a0\u00a0 He\u2019s wrong, but he asserts his opinion so definitively that I decide to site sources.<\/p>\n<p>Lots of different breads are called pumpernickel,\u201d I tell him. \u201cThere\u2019s a German bread made with coarse ground rye that food scholar Andrea Fadani believes is the original pumpernickel\u2014this bread is steamed rather than baked and has no discernible crust. Gil Marks, author of the <em>Encyclopedia of Jewish Food<\/em>, has his own ideas.\u00a0\u00a0 He says pumpernickel is a sourdough bread from Poland made with wheat and a medium-fine grade of rye. According to Gil Marks, what Americans call Jewish rye is really Polish pumpernickel.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGirlie, This here is pumpernickel,\u201d says the blue fleece guy pointing to stacked up loaves of rye bread in the basket next to my table as he walks away.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCan I take another piece?\u201d asks a tall young woman.\u00a0\u00a0 She pops the bread in her mouth and a dreamy look of love and memory crosses her face. \u201cMy grandmother was born in Sweden and she baked bread like this.\u00a0\u00a0 She made open face sandwiches. My favorite was egg salad with fresh dill and cucumber.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I explain that our bread comes from Latvia, which is located directly across the Baltic Sea from Sweden.\u00a0\u00a0 So it\u2019s not surprising her grandmother\u2019s bread would taste like ours. Fact is: rye grows better than wheat in cold wet climates and, for this reason, rye bread is the staple food of all the countries facing the Baltic. Russia too. (Perhaps this rye bread eating habit explains why women in northeastern Europe are so good looking. Just think of all those fair haired Eastern European models with their ostentatiously long legs, they were weaned on rye bread. They teethed on it. Sometimes when I get bored , I tell customers if they eat Black Rooster rye they will turn into tall skinny blonds.)<\/p>\n<p>As if to prove my point, a pretty blond woman (not tall), picks up a bit of bread and sniffs. \u201cI know this bread. It\u2019s <em>rupmaize<\/em>,\u201d she says using the Latvian word for whole grain sourdough rye.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou must be Latvian,\u201d I say.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes,\u201d she says, \u201cMy parents were born there and we have relatives there. when I go to visit I take an empty suitcase that I fill with rye bread&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd you get stopped by customs, right?\u201d I ask, knowing the answer.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes, the bomb-sniffing dogs go crazy\u2026<\/p>\n<p>The Latvian woman and I chat and I tell her that Black Rooster food is my husband\u2019s company and that he was born in Latvia too. She wants to know his name.\u00a0\u00a0 The Latvian \u00e9migr\u00e9 community in the U.S. is pretty small and they all seem to know each other.<\/p>\n<p>Janis Melngailis. (In high school he anglicized Janis to John.)<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t he some sort of scientist? she asks, proving my point about all Latvians knowing each other.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe\u2019s a physicist. A professor of electrical engineering at the University of Maryland.\u00a0\u00a0 Rye bread isn\u2019t John\u2019s career. It\u2019s his mission,\u201d I say. \u201cHis passion.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Because she is interested I fill her in on a little of the back story: How John hates American bread. How he\u2019s convinced white bread is the root of American health problems. Obesity. Diabetes. Crooked teeth. (Teeth need to gnaw on hard foods to grow straight.) For years John dreamed of introducing real rye bread here in the United States but didn\u2019t know how to go about it.\u00a0\u00a0 Then about five years ago, he joined forces with a colleague from the business school. The two of them started air freighting rye bread from Riga to Washington, DC where we live and selling it to Whole Foods and other local stores.\u00a0\u00a0 Every other week John would drive to Dulles Airport in a huge truck \u2013rentals, we learned, come in two sizes: too big and too small. Anyway he would leave the university, pick up the truck and drive to Dulles Airport where he\u2019d back into the loading dock where he\u2019d pick up palettes of rye bread that he repackaged by hand and delivered to his customers. Then the price of jet fuel increased, air freight costs skyrocketed and importing bread from overseas became impossible. So that was the end of the air freight business.\u00a0\u00a0 John\u2019s not a baker himself, but eventually he found an artisanal baker in Brooklyn \u2013a Russian guy named Gennady\u2014who had never made bread without wheat, but he was willing to experiment. John gave him the recipe. It took a number of attempts, but pretty soon Gennady mastered the craft and began turning out Latvian rye bread that John is marketing in New York, Boston and in Washington.<\/p>\n<p>The Latvian woman picks up a package of our bread.<\/p>\n<p>Black Rooster Food?, she says contemplating the stylish black rooster logo designed by our eldest daughter\u2019s husband equivalent.\u00a0\u00a0 (Modern family relations are indeed complex: Ilze is John\u2019s birth daughter and my stepdaughter, but \u201cstepdaughter\u201d seems insufficient to describe our close relationship. Her husband equivalent, Yucel, was born in Turkey. It is he who designed the logo.)<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMelngailis means black rooster in Latvian,\u201d I say. \u201cSo the name was a natural.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As is always the case when the conversation with a customer gets interesting, a couple of people stop to listen.<\/p>\n<p>A middle aged man in a tweed jacket standing off to the side looks at me knowingly and says, \u201cBut you are not Latvian, are you?\u201d Inwardly I sigh. I know where he is coming from.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo, I am Jewish. All four of my grandparents were Litvaks.\u201d (Jews with roots in Lithuanian who settled in nearby Belarus.) \u201cLitvaks, like Latvians favor breads made with rye and a bit of caraway. You might say rye bread ties John\u2019s and my \u201cmixed marriage\u201d together. For his ancestors and for mine rye bread was the staff of life, the staple food that kept them alive in hard times.<\/p>\n<p>The guy in the tweed jacket doesn\u2019t buy my exogamous view of the world. \u201cI can\u2019t see that Jews and Latvians have much in common,\u201d he says without a trace of a smile.<\/p>\n<p>They pain me, these allusions to the enmity between Latvians and Jews\u2014recently some guy just came right out and told me Latvians were Jew-killers and I had no business pitching Latvian bread\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHistory weighs on us all,\u201d I say and turn my attention to cutting more bread. There\u2019s a pause in the flow of customers. Then a chap in a belted brown leather coat approaches.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMay I,\u201d he asks, as he picks a bit off bread off my little white tray. He pauses. \u201cThis bread is delicious, he says.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt goes well with the smoked salmon in your basket,\u201d I say. I watch him to pick up two quarter loaves of Baltic rye and drop them in his basket. He doesn\u2019t leave, though. He lingers at my table. Not bad looking. Fifty maybe. With a kind face.<\/p>\n<p>My husband owns this company I tell him and we often serve rye bread with smoked salmon when we are entertaining.\u00a0\u00a0 Lately, though, we have been branching out. We\u2019ve begun serving rye bread with herring.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve said the magic word.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHerring! He says. Herring!\u00a0\u00a0 I love herring. I\u2019m having a party tonight. Do you think I could serve herring? What should I do,\u201d he asks. \u201cHow should I serve it?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe slice the bread thin. There are lots of different kinds of herrings you can buy. Some are pickled. Some are not. We like sampling a few.\u00a0\u00a0 We cut the herring into small pieces, top them with a dollop of sour cream serve and serve these tidbits with a thimble full of ice cold vodka.<\/p>\n<p>Now I\u2019ve really got his attention. I get the distinct feeling this guy is newly single.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWill you come to my house tonight and help me serve?\u201d he asks.<\/p>\n<p>(The answer, delivered with kindness, is no, but I can give you more recipes for serving Black Rooster Rye Bread. And yes, in case you are wondering, I am far enough from my prime to be flattered by the attention.)<\/p>\n<p>After my gentleman caller departs, the loaves in the display rack disappear quickly, and soon I have come close to selling out Zabar\u2019s weekly supply of our bread. Chatting with customers these past three hours, it has once again struck me how many New Yorkers are haunted by the culinary past. How even those like me who were born in the United States with roots extending back to Eastern Europe have this culinary longing for a time when sour dough rye was not an exotic heirloom, but standard fare. The bread one ate every day with real food: herring, sardines, butter, borscht, sausage, beef and barley soup&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>As I pack up and prepare to depart a nice looking fellow in a well fitting blazer with Finno-Ugric eyes swings by my display table late and takes a sample of bread.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI know this bread. I grew up on this bread.\u201d He closes his eyes and takes another bite, letting the firm flesh of the bread melt in his mouth.\u00a0\u00a0 A smile crosses his face and travels to his now opened eyes. His face relaxes.\u00a0\u00a0 I recognize his look.\u00a0\u00a0 His Proustian look.\u00a0\u00a0 He does not like this bread. He loves this bread.\u00a0\u00a0 The bread of memory. The bread of the lost motherland. The bread of earthly goodness.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCan I really buy this bread here?\u201d he asks<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes you can.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEvery week?<\/p>\n<p>Every week?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes,\u201d I say. \u201cYou can by this bread every week.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And then he does the most unexpected thing. He leans over and kisses the lapel of my purple corduroy blazer.\u00a0\u00a0 This is not a flirtatious gesture.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThanks you,\u201d he says. \u201cThank you for selling this bread.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I stand there flabbergasted and moved. Understanding as never before that rye bread, that bit of stuff hoarded by Ivan Denisovitch in the gulag, that long-lasting loaf shoved in the hold of ships to feed sailors plying the Baltic, that precious staff of life hidden in the swaddling clothes of newborns in the hopes that this child will never go hungry, that most practical and yet mystical bread has been for millions of souls life itself and so much more. History. Memory. Culture. The very body of God himself.\u00a0\u00a0 So moving is the understanding that washes over me, that washes through me that I, rarely at a loss for words, have nothing to say except, \u201cYou are welcome.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I stand crowded into a small space in front of a refrigerated display case on the far wall of Zabar\u2019s bakery section handing out tiny triangles of Baltic-style rye bread. 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